![]() ![]() His mercy is endless and His guidance is sure. ![]() ![]() Standing at a crossroads is never an easy time of life, but it can be a joyful one when we seek God’s best, trust in His grace, and step back to see a bigger picture. What positive/negative results can I expect to happen as a result of this decision?Īnd last but not least… IS THIS A WISE DECISION AND THE BEST CHOICE I CAN POSSIBLY MAKE? Have I surrendered the outcome to God at a heart level?Īm I following my head (facts) or my heart (emotions)?Īm I placing a high value on the honest guidance of those who love me the most or am I slugging this out on my own? When friends, family member, or my spouse discuss the decision with me, do I become defensive, angry, close-minded or unwilling to see their viewpoints?ĭo others see negative changes to my personality, mental health, relationships, or my stress levels as a result of this decision or this decision making process?Īm I open to listen to a godly viewpoint that doesn’t agree with my desired outcome? Is this consuming my emotional, spiritual, mental, and financial energy only to produce negative results in my life?Īm I willing to sin to get my way, or have I sinned in order to get this far in the decision-making process? Is this causing unhealthy divisions with my trusted friends, close family or spiritual family?ĭo I rationalize or justify my actions or words to get my end result? (physically, mentally, spiritually, sexually, financially)ĭo I have an unrealistic view of reality or natural consequences? ex: The false notion that if I do something that is in direct opposition to God, that He is obligated to save me from the negative natural consequences of my poor choices? (The attitude that God would never let that happen to me.)ĭoes this idea/job/opportunity/relationship/direction draw me closer to God, or does it bring emotional/spiritual distance with my loved ones? Will this be a life-giving, positive influence on my spouse, children, extended family, or peers? (or future spouse and children). Have I made excuses or participated in rationalizing/justifying unhealthy behavior?ĭoes this advance unbiblical behavior, thoughts, and actions or does this help me to be a light to those around me?ĭo I have people who are willing to speak truth into my life, even if it hurts?Īm I sacrificing or bending my non-negotiable core beliefs or values to get my desired outcome? (relationally, spiritually, mentally, financially, physically, sexually, or ethically)ĭo my actions, intentions, or thoughts line up with the moral and ethical principles found in Scripture? (Spoiler alert- God will never tempt you into sin or ask you to violate His Word.)ĭoes this use my God given gifts and abilities in a way that brings honor to God and dignity to me?ĭoes this take time or emotional energy away from my current obligations, so that my top priorities are neglected? (family time, financial issues, spouse, career goals, etc.) Ready? Let’s get real…because the future version of you is worth it.Īm I really seeking God’s best or am I relying on my own thoughts/actions/emotions?Īm I spending time in fervent prayer, fasting, focused devotions, or involved in an in-depth Bible study/biblically based book that will help guide me through this process?Īm I seeking Biblical, godly counsel from a trusted Christian mentor(s) or pastor(s) that will not only enable me to broaden my thinking, but keep my best interest in mind? If so, am I sharing truths that will give my mentor or pastor accurate information that will help them guide me, or am I holding back details from them to get my desired outcome?Īm I surrounding myself with unhealthy relationships, ungodly friends, or negative influences that are leading me away from clear thinking as I make my decisions? Who knows, maybe your answer will be clear before you reach the end of this list! The Holy Spirit might prompt you to seek godly counsel, spend time in repentance, or simply worship Him in silence or song as you reflect. Don’t simply rush through these questions, take your time! You may turn some of these questions into a prayer asking God to reveal more of Himself in your situation. Ok, Sister, these questions are not easy! If you need to, grab your journal and prayerfully take time answering each one individually. ![]()
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